Tom Sloane

Tom Sloane is a fictional character created for the MTV animated series Daria. He first appeared in the final episode of Season Three, as Jane Lane's boyfriend, and later became Daria Morgendorffer's boyfriend. He is the only character on the show to have dated both Daria and Jane, and the only one who seriously dated Daria.

Character Overview
Tom Sloane is a rich teenager who belongs to one of Lawndale's richest families, but this is neither apparent from his appearance, nor by the car he drives. He has certain characteristics in common with Daria: he is intelligent, well-read, and cynical, and he is not afraid to show it. He was introduced in the episode "Jane's Addition" and indeed was the titular "addition" of that episode. Tom continued as Daria's boyfriend throughout the final season.

It is directly stated by many characters on the show that his family is not only rather wealthy but is also quite powerful. His interest in this wealth and power varies considerably. Tom's initial car is a Ford Pinto, considered to be among the more dangerous cars ever made. It can be seen as a clear attempt by Tom to escape or at least not be associated with his family's immense wealth. We later see him driving what appears to be a well-used Jaguar, a car more fitting of his station (he states his parents had his old car towed away in the night). However, he is not only gleefully going to attend the pompous, Ivy League school known as Bromwell, he assumes he's getting in to the extent of not really bothering about his second-choice colleges; he is shown having and using Bromwell contacts & influence through his family, though he shrugs that off when Daria points it out. He also uses his family's influence to get Daria into Bromwell as well, which (despite being a helpful act on his part) irked Daria. Generally, he seems to enjoy his familly's wealth while noticing and casually disparaging some of its absurdities. His family's wealth and power was a source of tension between him and Daria during their relationship, sometimes from his unnoticed privilege and sometimes because she automatically assumed the worst because of his class.

He has a younger sister, Elsie, with whom he appears to have an ambiguously hostile relationship. He seems to get on with his parents. In "Boxing Daria", he made a casual comment about his famil (and other rich families) try to ignore their family problems and pretend they don't exist.

It seems to be hinted that Tom is not very popular at his own school, much like Daria and Jane at Lawndale High. He shows little interest in social events of his own class, such as not being interested in going to the dance in Is It Fall Yet? and referring to those events as "dull". In Partner's Complaint his "good friends" blow him off, leading him to seek Jane at Pizza King. In My Night at Daria's when Daria tells him that a rumor is going around Lawndale that the two of them had sex, Tom asks if they could get the rumor going at his school, too. Notably, we never see any of Tom's friends from Fielding or hear about them.

The "Love Triangle" Story Arc
In the episode "Jane's Addition," Tom was introduced and began dating Jane Lane in very short order. They met at a Mystik Spiral gig while Daria was briefly absent. The amount of time Jane spent with Tom was a source of tension between Daria and Jane for many episodes afterward, much as Jane's dates with Evan had been ("See Jane Run").

Daria and Tom, however, had a lot in common. Though Jane was never portrayed as stupid, she was definitely not as "book-smart" as Daria or Tom.

By the episode "I Loathe a Parade," however, it was clear that the tension between Daria and Tom had blossomed into something else. Throughout the next several episodes, the two began a strange flirtation, which did not go unnoticed by Jane. ("When," she asks bitterly, "did I become a third wheel in my own relationship?") In "Dye! Dye! My Darling," Daria and Tom shared a moment known as The Kiss in Tom's car. This betrayal nearly ended Daria and Jane's friendship. Daria's relationships with both Jane and Tom were not fully resolved until Is it Fall Yet?. At the end of that movie, Daria and Jane's friendship was revealed to be stronger than the boy-drama, and Daria decided to pursue a romantic entanglement with Tom. As far as anyone knows, this was Daria's first romantic relationship of any kind. Daria's and Tom's couplehood was the source of many episodes throughout the remainder of the series. It finally ended in Is It College Yet?.

Relationship with Daria
Tom is the only character we meet to have actually "dated" Daria, in the sense of having a mutually-understood, ongoing, romantic relationship. It is not clear, however, how far Daria and Tom went physically in their relationship, just that no intercourse was had. This gap led to some speculation in fan fiction, and produced some pornographic fan art.

Fan Controversy
Tom's potentially ending the relationship between Daria and Jane, and effectively sealing the fate of the flirtation between Daria and Trent Lane, caused Tom to be a very controversial character. The Kiss generated enormous antipathy for both Tom and Daria, therefore, there are very few fanworks that portray them in a positive light. Notable exceptions are Ring Toss by Nemo Blank and Mr. and Mrs. Sloane by Quiverwing.

Evil Tom
Because of the Triangle issue, Tom was occasionally portrayed as basically unfeeling and cavalier of the attitudes of others. This stereotype has been parodied and taken to the extreme in several fanfics, painting Tom as the driving force behind global evil (Kill Tom Fic). This trope has become wearisome to many fans, but still it lives on (Tired Daria Fandom Tropes).

The "Evil Tom" stereotype was on some message boards referred to as "Thom."

Tom-Who-Belongs-With-Someone-Else
The outcome of the Triangle led some fanfic writers to speculate that Tom properly belonged with someone else entirely. This issue has been examined in a number of shipper fanfics, creating pairings such as Tom/Quinn and Tom/Jodie, most of which are implied to have turned into successful relationships.

Tom-centric Fanfiction

 * "Dear Tom," by Ruthless Bunny
 * "My Night at Tom's," by Thessalian
 * "The Next Step," by Mike Xeno
 * "Reflections in the Hood of a Car," by Angelinhel
 * "Tom's Eye View," by Dennis
 * "Bromwell Bound: That One Fateful Summer, by HolyGrail2007