Helen Morgendorffer

Helen Morgendorffer née Barksdale is a character from the MTV television series, "Daria". A corporate lawyer, she is the mother of Daria Morgendorffer and Quinn Morgendorffer.



Background
Helen Barksdale's early years were spent in the shadow of her older sister Rita, whom her parents spoiled rotten and to whom they gave all their love, attention, and money. Helen grew up extremely resentful of being ignored but at the same time determined to be the best at everything she did in order to try and one day win the approval of her parents. When hard work failed to win her the love and attention of her parents, Helen responded by becoming a hippie and joining the late 1960s counter-culture. While in college, she met Jake Morgendorffer and the two began dating. Jake and Helen both had similar problems with their families and became an item. After college, the two moved into a commune with friends before getting married. Helen enrolled in law school and much like her husband, rejected their hippie lifestyles and embraced the world of corporate America.

Helen became a corporate lawyer, a career that quickly became the main focus of her life. Even after giving birth to two daughters, she continued to practice law at the expense of her family. While failing to make partner at the various law firms she worked for, Helen became the family bread-winner due to her long hours put in at work, though the exact amount that she earns in comparison to her husband is never revealed either in actual salary numbers or real work hours put in respectively with either parent.

Personality
Helen Morgendorffer is a classic Type A personality, driven to be the best and succeed no matter what. This results in her often neglecting her husband and children, which she does regret somewhat on a regular basis. Despite her strong drive for corporate life, Helen is equally driven to fulfill her roles as mother and wife to her family, though this task seems far from easy. Helen throughout the duration of the television series tries to show care and love for her family, though her work continually interrupts or overshadows such efforts. Nonetheless she continues to make these attempts without slackening, and occasionally is successful.

Relationship with her husband
While her husband may frustrate her at points with his various personality quirks, possible personality disorders, apparent cluelessness and crazy antics, he is still the man she loves and married, and in some episodes it is shown that the flame of her marriage is not gone.

Relationship with her daughters
Concerning her children, she constantly tries very hard to juggle her self-imposed demands for success corporately with the difficulty of raising her two daughters as they grow. In nearly every episode Helen tries to show interest and involvement in her children's lives, even if it makes her seem occasionally intrusive and annoying to them. This involvement is not always displayed as a parent-curiosity or concern, as sometimes she imposes rules and limits on her daughters. Usually these limits are only necessary for Quinn, as Daria rarely acts foolishly or without thought or restraint, but such limits are often set upon both daughters, in what is usually claimed to be an act of fairness to all.

Throughout most of the series, Helen's attempts to chat with her daughters often sound over-friendly, rehearsed, or insincere. This is probably because her daughters are growing up very quickly and due to her fast paced and demanding career, she has not been able to keep up with their lives in a way she feels comfortable with. Furthermore her daughters, while rarely openly hostile or resentful of their mother, almost never invite or seek to converse and discuss teenage issues with her. Despite such difficulties, Helen unyieldingly and continually attempts to enrich her relationship with her daughters. Her efforts appear somewhat fruitful in the short term, and may be fruitful in the long term.

Relationship with Daria
Helen's obsession to be the best described with her relationships with her children and in particular, her relationship with her oldest daughter Daria. Helen is constantly pushing her daughter to be more involved with school activities, to be more of a conformist, and to make friends (or "network") with the more popular students at Lawndale High. Often Daria finds herself pressured or bribed with money to go along with her mother's demands.

Daria tends to speak with her mother more often than her sister Quinn Morgendorffer does, and usually the conversations are of an adult level of maturity. At times Helen will succeed in getting Daria to talk about whatever current trouble she is dealing with. On occasion Helen demonstrates a deeper understanding of her daughter's habits than most of the family gives her credit for, such as in the episodes called "Write Where It Hurts", where she succinctly explains Daria's cynical habits and offers some help and sage parental advice.

Despite this understanding and her personal history, Helen also develops a profound fear of Daria becoming sexually active. Why she would have this concern when she knows her eldest daughter is not given to impulsive acts is not explained.

Helen's perception of Daria is made clear in the final regular episode, "Boxing Daria." In this story, Helen and Jake learn that their daughter is concerned they considered her a burden. At this fear, they firmly explain that while her cynical and sardonic loner personality has been a concern, they consider it worth the price for having a gifted and perceptive daughter of deep principles.

Feminism
One of the main aspects of Helen Morgendorffer's character is her feminist beliefs, which are rooted in her involvement in the 1960s counter-culture. A firm believer in gender equality, she has tried to instill the same sort of beliefs in her daughters. This often puts her in conflict with her youngest daughter Quinn, over her daughter's belief that her looks are the most important aspect of her life. However, Helen is not a misandrist, as she loves her husband and while she may not approve of all of Quinn's boyfriends, she is nonetheless kind and polite to young, middle-aged, and older men that she comes into contact with.

Evil Helen
Helen's workaholism affects her ability to be a good mother, a character defect that was explored in the episode "Psycho Therapy" but is visible as early as "Esteemsters" ([to Daria] "We tell you over and over again that you're wonderful and you just...don't...get it! What's wrong with you?") Though Helen also shows herself at times to be quite perceptive (e.g., "Write Where It Hurts" and "Is It Fall Yet?"), certain fanfics carry her parental disconnection to the extreme, producing the Evil Helen stereotype. One such example is in "Darius" by The Angst Guy, when grave marital and family stresses have overwhelmed her motherly instincts and made her quite ruthless. Others include "To Helen Back," by C.E. Forman and "Connect Four," by Diane Long.

Trivia
Helen Morgendorffer is voiced by Wendy Hoopes, who also voiced Daria's sister Quinn and her best friend Jane.